Tips on Kissing
Couples should not limit kissing merely to times like making out, or as the conclusion to a date or a prelude to something more. Kissing your lover should be an everyday affair, an expression of your love for her. You should not use every kissing session as a prelude to sex.
Good and Bad Kissing
If you are a bad kisser, what a woman will never, ever say to you she was going to have sex with you until just that moment. This is one of the ways in which men and women differ. If a man is very attracted to a woman but discovers she’s a bad kisser and if he is presented with the opportunity, he’ll probably have sex with her anyway. A woman can’t get past a bad kiss. After all, if he hasn’t mastered kissing and fails to see its sensual possibilities, what hope is there for, ahem, anything else?
Kissing Techniques
The secret to being a great kisser is to keep it simple and sexy. Forget about impressing her with that Casanovian kiss. Instead, indulge yourself in a simple, sexy and intimate kiss. Rid your mind of any kissing performance thoughts, and instead, realize that she’s opening the door to her soul and body. Enjoy the moment!
You could ask him/her to kiss you, but that takes a lot of courage. But you can tell, without reading his mind. Here are some ways. He could have worked on the science project with someone else, but he asked you. He could have called somebody else to chat about the English assignment, but he called you. He could have sat anywhere in the cafeteria, but he sat next to you. It all means he likes to hang out with you.
And what about when you’re with him. Does he sit close to you? Does he smile and look happy when you’re together? These are all signs that he likes you and might want to kiss you.
Dos and Don’ts for Kissing
Don’t drool all over her mouth while kissing. Women don’t like wet or sloppy kisses.
Don’t keep your lips stiff and rigid. You’ve got to keep your lips soft and sensuous. She needs to be able to feel your lips.
Don’t keep your lips closed. Open your lips! Women don’t enjoy kissing just a slit on a guys face.
If you don’t know how to kiss properly, try to practice on the back of your hand. Pretend that you are kissing a hot & sexy beautiful woman that you’re dying to become intimate with. You could also practice kissing yourself on the mirror.
In short, if you really want to succeed with single women in the love and romance department, you must be a good kisser.
A great kiss should always be when you’re alone with her. A movie theatre is a good place because it’s dark and people won’t be paying attention. Try to sit near the back, though, for privacy. But I do believe that a first kiss should be the good-bye kiss. When you’re dropping her off at her place or saying good-bye from seeing one another until the next time, ask her if it’s okay if you kiss her. It’s not childish or geeky to ask a woman that. It’s respectful and kind.
Bear in mind the hands should not be used to prevent the woman from going anywhere or to clamp her head into one uncomfortable position. Remember most women like men to toy gently with their hair. After decades of bad press about sticky hairsprays and helmet hair, most of us have been using products to enhance “touch ability” and are favoring hairstyles that look good a bit tousled. So go ahead and touch hair. And quit using all that sticky hairspray and goo so we can go back to touching yours.
Keep in mind that using your tongue is not required for kissing… if you are not experienced, save the French kissing (kissing using your tongue) for later. Lots of the greatest kisses are all about the lips. When you are comfortable kissing your partner, experiment with different ways to taste and nuzzle his lips. Caress his lips by brushing your lips back and forth against them, lick the outside corners of his mouth, and try using different pressures and movements to gently explore your partner’s lips. Notice how good his lips feel against yours, and try different things to make them feel even better!
First Kissing
What happens during a first romantic kiss?
First romantic kiss is probably the most memorable event in person’s life. Almost everyone remembers their first kiss. It’s that time when everything feels new, anticipation builds up with enormous force and as you hold hands and move in closer for that first magical moment and the rest of the world fades away as your lips connect to your partner’s lips.
Well, maybe not quite like this. First time can be quite awkward for some people. There is nothing wrong with it, I mean how are you supposed to know how to do something without having ever done it before? Humans learn through repetition and kissing is quite pleasant to be done a lot, so you will learn quickly.
When you’re with that special someone that you really like and he or she likes you back, you can try to kiss with that person. Different people have different comfort levels when it comes to kissing, so if you’re unsure if your partner wants to kiss, you can ask him or her. Asking is probably going to be less awkward if you just try to go for the kiss, especially if your partner has never kissed before either.
There are a few tips that can help you avoid awkwardness during your first kiss! It’s such an exciting moment!
- Ask your partner if he or she wants to kiss.
- Don’t rush things too quickly, rather take your time.
- Look your partner in the eyes and exchange few warms words to help each other feel more comfortable.
- Hold hands.
- If you’re a guy, softly stroke your girlfriend’s hair, while looking into her eyes.
- If you’re sitting next to each other, you can whisper some sweet words into your partner’s ear.
- Give your partner a compliment to make them feel more comfortable.
- As you look into each other’s eyes try to move your head a little bit closer to their head and watch how they react.
- Slowly move in closer and closer, turning your head slightly to the right (most people turn their head to the right when they are about to kiss) as you open your mouth slightly.
- When your mouths connect, stop moving your head forward and softly press up against your partner’s lips with your lips.
- As you kiss their lips with your lips, you can softly, just a tiny little bit stick your tongue out and touch their lips.
- Don’t put the tongue into their mouth the first time you kiss, since first kiss is very delicate.
- After a few seconds of kissing, withdraw your head and look into your partner’s eyes and hug them.
- Tell your partner you really enjoyed their kiss to make him or her feel more comfortable.
What is a French kiss?
A French kiss is essentially a prolonged, more passionate and captivating kiss with lots of tongue that two people engage in after they built an initial kissing comfort with each other.
How do you French kiss?
French kissing uses much more tongue than regular kissing. The thing though is not to thrust your tongue into your partner’s or date’s mouth. You have to carefully, yet passionately touch their tongue with yours. The tongue has to be relaxed and not forceful. This brings the most pleasure to you and to your partner. Those of us who kissed before know that one person who always used to thrust their tongue into our mouths. Not exactly pleasant to say the least, but it can be if another person likes it. Personally i haven’t really found anyone who likes it, however sometimes during sex, during the more passionate moments, I may thrust my tongue into my partner’s mouth.
There are different theories on how to use your lips. Personally I prefer not to “suck” on another person’s lips, rather let my lips be relaxed, yet not too relaxed. I may suck on my partner’s lips slightly, as in smooching them, but not overly extensive and energetic with saliva all over…yuck. Although some people might enjoy this type of kiss, so if your partner and you enjoy it, but all means do it.
Some French kissing involves tongue more than lips (you play with your tongue more than with your lips), or you can play with your lips more than with the tongue or you can do both. Usually French kissing is very arousing to both man and a woman due to sheer amount of passion expressed in such kiss.
French kissing can last for minutes or even hours (there are even French kissing competitions!), as opposed to regular kissing, which is often brief yet, can be as passionate as French kiss.
Transitioning to French kissing is usually a natural expansion of regular kiss and “just happens” as you get more and more comfortable with your partner. So, don’t worry that you didn’t French kiss your partner the first day you kissed him. Even though if you’re comfortable with yourself, you may attempt to lead and transition to French kissing as you’re kissing and see how your partner reacts. Most of the time, they will react positively, because they most likely do want to indulge in it with you if they are attracted to you and are already kissing you.